Tips For Touching Her

5 Advanced-Level Tips To Help You Get Her Off

Mastery of her body means withdrawing just before that peak of satiation. This allows her to continue to feel her desire after you’re gone.

In Part One, you learned the basics of how to touch her to drive her wild. Now it’s time to take things up a notch.
So you’ve read the first five tips on how to touch a woman down there and, if you’re maybe even practiced on a real live woman. Great. Here are the more advanced five. Mind you, they’re not necessarily difficult in terms of action. They’re more advanced in that they require more than just doing — they require your attention.

Through thousands of hours with fingers on clitorises, we’ve found that attention, along with the skills listed below, can certainly be learned. When you do, you can give a woman the orgasm she wants and open her to being happier, healthier, and turned on. Here are the final five steps on learning how to touch a woman down there.

6. Learn to recognize when she’s performing and when she’s really feeling.

Women know that men want to “do her right.” They don’t want you to feel like a loser so they learn to perform, exaggerate, and fake it to stroke your ego. Even worse, most men are unwilling to learn when she is faking because that means acknowledging they didn’t quite hit it. If you try to learn how to handle her just from her moans and audible feedback, you’re calibrating off the wrong thermometer.

Get your ego out of the way and learn to recognize when she’s performing. Part of you already knows, you just don’t want to have to admit it. Once you learn to to differentiate the theatrics from the real sensation, you can start consistently getting the real juice rather than the unfulfilling impostor.

7. Learn when to withdraw.

Too much of any good thing isn’t good at all. A skilled lover knows when to stop something before it gets played out. This is known as the Art of Peaking. The “peak” is the moment where sensation no longer increases. The same way forcing yourself to eat past satiation results in a flavor decrease, continuing sexual stimulation past the peak actually kills the “flavor.”

Mastery of her body means withdrawing just before that peak of satiation. This allows her to continue to feel her desire after you’re gone. Yes, you keep her wanting more. It’s more than a marketing technique. It actually is a kind thing to do. Society trains us to immediately gratify (effectively, squash) our desires so we don’t feel them anymore. But the state of wanting feels good on its own. It allows you to keep “tasting.” Give her this gift of feeling desire. Learn when it’s time to pull back.

8. Learn when to go get her.

No one wants to be a violator, yet we all know there are moments where she wants you to be physically assertive. A place of confusion for many men is reconciling giving a woman space to give you the green light versus being assertive and leading the interaction. Knowing when to be gentle and when to be aggressive is its own skill.

The way to get her the right way is with attention, NOT pressure. If you pay meticulous attention to her body and how it feels, her body will let you know the right stroke for the moment. Hint: It’s in a different location, with a different pressure and a different speed for each different moment. The moving target is her body’s way of making sure you’re paying attention.

Touching a woman is an art form. Take the master class here.

9. Learn to listen to your own body.

Men who study with OneTaste are often asked, “Why do you spend so much time on female anatomy? When do you get to yours?” Many men come through the doors to learn the art of touching a woman’s genitals as a path towards being a better lover, or to add a skill to their repertoire, or something to that effect. The bait-and-switch is that in that process, a man learns to feel his own body more in response to hers.

Ultimately, gaining mastery over anything requires you to get past having to think about it and instead feel what the right move is. Your body will inform you what to do if you let it. Shut off your mind and start feeling around. You’ll notice that certain touches of her body get your body excited. That’s your body’s way of telling you that you “hit her spot.”

10. Learn to ask.

If you were learning to play guitar, wouldn’t it be great if the instrument could say things like, “Hey lighten up on the strum and press harder into the frets to get a better sound” from time to time? Yes, it would make learning the guitar at lot easier and faster. Sadly, guitars can’t talk… but women can!

In fact, women love talking about sex. She’ll likely be honored that you care enough about learning her body that you would ask what feels good. Most men try to act like they know everything so they mash away, she fakes it to keep his ego intact and he never learns. Don’t miss out on the the most valuable feedback you can get — ask her!




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