First Dates

10 Things She’s Thinking About During Your First Date

The first date is an important interview, and chances are she’s unsure going in, anyway. That’s why we’ve gone over the entire process in meticulous detail, so that you know exactly how to prepare. From knowing where she expects you to take her to obvious and nuanced topics to avoid, this is everything you need to know before you even ask her out. There’s no reason to have a sparkling conversation and obvious chemistry if you’re going to screw the whole thing up in the fourth quarter by trying to go Dutch.

10. Whether You’re Expecting Sex

If your first thought is “Yes,” you’ve probably got some serious swag. Many men think that it’s likely to happen, but we hit the streets to ask women what they really think. And here’s a hint: Nationwide, only 6% admit to actually having had sex on a first date, according to a 2013 study by Match.com. However, this ranges by city, with women in New York being the least likely to go to bed with someone on a first date and 31% of singles in Dallas comfortable with first-date sex. We’re moving.

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9. How Much Body Hair You Have

Is body hair a deal breaker? Sure, she saw you when you asked her out, but that could have been at a dark bar. Now you’re bringing your potential relationship into the daylight… where she can see… all of you. So where on the body do women not mind seeing hair? You’d be surprised what women reveal.

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8. How Much Money You Make

We’re thinking you’re a young professional or a recent college grad who just started your career. If you’re one of the lucky ones, you make some decent money. But, hey, millionaires don’t start off as millionaires. Am I right? Most women won’t come right out and say they care about money. Here’s what we found out by talking to some real girls.

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7. What Kind Of Booze You’ll Order

You don’t want to show up on a first date this summer ordering a heavy Cabernet. And while she may not expect you to know your booze inside and out, she will expect you to be confident when you order. This video will help you figure out your go-to summer first date wine.

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6. Whether You’re Going To Pay

A first date is hard. It’s scary. It’s new. Now grow some balls and get in the game. This video will help you with the basics: are you expected to foot the bill? What are good first date ideas? How original do you have to be?

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5. What You’re Going To Talk About

You worked up the courage to actually ask her out. But now you’re worried that once you actually have her there, the whole thing will fall apart. Will you talk about things she finds interesting? Check out this video for a few simple things you can do to make sure the conversation flows.

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4. What Red Flags You’re Exhibiting

You don’t need us to tell you that, on a first date, you want to try to make the best impression possible. There are certain obvious personal details to avoid on the first date, like the fact that you still live with your parents or whether you’ve ever cheated. But some characteristics women deem “red flags” surprised even us. Check out this video to make sure you know what’s up — and why she may not call you back.

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3. How Big You Are

We can all argue that it takes more than height to make a great basketball player and more than biceps to make a standout football star. The same can be said for guys who are good in bed — but do women agree? Here’s what she’ll be thinking about during dinner.

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2. Whether She Wants To Show You She’s Flirting

Simple things like her moving closer or squaring up to face you mean way more than you might imagine, since only 7% of actual conversation is through words and the remaining 93% is nonverbal. These signs will help you to determine whether she’s with you just to score a free dinner or whether she’s really into you.

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1. What Where You Took Her Means

A movie? A walk in the park? Dinner? Sure, these are all options. But we took to the streets of New York to find out what she really wants you to plan. You may not need to be as original as you think.

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Source: http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/first-dates.html

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