Can a simple story lead to love and sex?
Have you ever listened to a master story teller as they are telling their story?
Have you ever looked around to see how other people were reacting as the master story teller was telling their story?
If so, then you have probably witnessed firsthand the power of being able to tell a really compelling and entrancing tale.
So, how can all of this lead to seduction?
First, let’s look at the average guy’s approach, if he even has one when it comes to seducing a woman.
More than likely, he is going to be a little bit nervous.
Maybe even a little bit awkward.
He’s going to be in an environment that he probably doesn’t feel all that comfortable in.
And, he is probably going to try to remember some lame line that he read online or that one of his buddies told him worked like magic.
As he approaches a woman, that nervous vibe is going to be picked up by her, making her feel a little uneasy.
That awkward feeling he has is going to spread out to her, so now she is feeling it.
And, this is all probably going to happen in a place that is crowded and noisy.
He doesn’t stand a chance.
He has only a few moments to get her attention and if he does what he always does… it’s not going to work.
YOU NEED HER ATTENTION…
Now, I don’t mean to say that you should be needy for her attention, that’s another thing altogether. Something that you shouldn’t be feeling. However, if you are going to make a connection with her, you do need her attention.
So, you need to start off with an opener that is going to grab that attention.
Okay, so let’s say that you do that…
What are you going to do next?
This is where most guys who get the opener part right start to mess up.
They don’t have anything that they can tap into to keep a woman’s attention once they have it initially.
And this is where the STORYTELLING part comes in.
If you can tell her a short, but engaging story… that she becomes entranced by… you are not going to have to worry about keeping her attention because her attention IS going to be on you.
So, what makes for a compelling story that captures attention?
1. It has to be quick and to the point, but not so quick that it lacks detail.
In a bar or a club, you are not really going to have the chance to tell a long story. And unless you are a natural, the longer you go, the more likely it is that you are going to end up losing her attention as the story drags on. So, you need to keep it short, but long enough that it has some detail to it.
2. It has to create a bonding effect with her.
The story can’t be all about you or a thinly veiled attempt to be conceited or anything. You want it to create a bonding effect, so that she feels attached to you and the story in some way. The more attached she is, the deeper the bond, the better.
3. It should lead somewhere.
What I mean is, it should have some relevance to the situation you are in and it should naturally move in a forward direction. I’ll give you an example: I was talking to a woman at a club about the song that was on the radio in the background. Told her a story about how my friends and I would drive around in the summer the year after high school and how pumped up that song would get us. It would get us in the spirit of having fun.
The way I told it, it made HER want to have some FUN. Guess what? She grabbed my arm and dragged me out to the dance floor. I had met her maybe 10 minutes before.
The reason was because it was relevant. It was about the song that was playing. And it gave off the impression that I was all about having fun and that put HER in the state of wanting to have fun with ME.
Story telling can be great, because it captures a woman’s attention AND it can suggest to her certain things. You can tell a story that suggests that you are Caring. Adventurous. Fun. Mischievous.
That helps to give her a good impression of you without you coming out and sounding like you are selling yourself by saying I am fun. I am caring. I am adventurous. I am mischievous.
It takes some time and practice, but being able to tell a good story can make seduction seem easy. It can also help get the attention of an entire group, which naturally gives you the appearance of being an alpha male.
The more skills you have the easier it is to seduce a woman and make her fall for you. Storytelling is just ONE of the skills you want to have.